Good morning all – hope everyone is well, happy and dry!
Thank you for all the responses to last week’s Blog about how we lived when we were a whole lot younger than we are now. Here are just a few of the responses I had (names have been removed) and I thank you all so much – I think I probably had more responses to this than to any previous Blog!
We, about eight of us, older ones looking after a couple of younger brothers and sisters would get on a train to go to Epping forest for the day. Ages went from about 11 to 6 years old. We never had any problems.
Happy memories of happy days. We had so much freedom and our parents trusted us not to do anything too stupid! Friends of our parents plus the neighbours were always Aunty, Uncle or Mr and Mrs and they had collective responsibility to correct any mistakes we made.
Oh yes much healthier times all round no media bullies and allowed to play with extended family and everyone got along (for the main part) if we didn’t eat what mum cooked then go without and we made our own entertainment with go karts dens etc
I remember standing between the front seats of the car watching where we were going – only got told to sit down when I quickly turned to look at something and whipped my dad round the face with my ponytail!! Now I won’t move the car until everyone has their seat belts on
We actually used to sit on the hood of my father’s car while speeding down the new M1 motorway!
That freedom was precious and we probably didn’t appreciate it enough.
Love those memories of your youth Chris – very similar to what dad used to describe. He said his family had one of the first T.Vs in the street and all the kids would come in to watch the children’s programmes …… those were the days my friend ….
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This week I went on my first bus journey since March – only very local and I was a bit apprehensive at doing it but needs must!
The instructions were clear – sanitise your hands, wear a mask and do not sit next to someone – sit as far as possible from another passenger. OK, got that.
All the buses I’ve passed in the past few months seem to have no passengers on at all, so I was quite confident as I waited for the bus to arrive. There was an elderly lady in front of me, with her shopping trolley but I thought two of us would hardly fill the bus!
It arrived, the driver got off and we waited for the next driver to hop aboard. And we waited, and waited, and waited. Eventually I abandoned the queue, marched off to the office and enquired how long the bus would be waiting as it was already ten minutes late.
Answer – ‘Dunno – depends.’
‘On what?’
‘How long it takes for the driver to get here from the Depot – shouldn’t be too much longer!’
Eventually another bus came in, the driver stayed on board so we got on that one instead, leaving the other one still waiting at the stop.
All instructions followed, I went up towards the back of the bus, thinking that no-one would have to pass me to get on or off. Suddenly, there seemed to be hoards of people (well quite a few) all getting on. Goodness knows where they had come from – in the waiting room perhaps? Everyone had masks on, no-one bothered to sanitise and people just sat anywhere regardless of who they were near. (My strategically placed bag stopped anyone sitting next to me, combined with my death stare!)
As I looked around – people were taking off their masks to talk to other people! What? Are they mad? What to do? I tried remonstrating with a woman near me in a gentle and kind way – suggesting she might not have realised that her mask had slipped off and was under her chin, but to no avail. I could feel a bit of panic setting in but the bus had started – I have never been so glad to get off the bus in my life – and managed to put my stick on someone’s foot on the way off – on the grounds if he had been following instructions, he wouldn’t have been sitting next to someone else and hanging over his seat into the aisle!
It will be a while until I next venture to repeat the journey!
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As a mother, Grandmother and a Great Grandmother I am no stranger to the need to raise your voice at children sometimes, particularly as in ‘No’, or ‘Stop’ or ‘Wait’ when they are heading to a road or something. But what possible necessity can there be for shouting as a baby in a pram? And I can’t think of any rational reason for swearing at a small child (or a large one, come to that) – why would anyone, even at the end of their tether, do that?
I saw a mother pushing a pram, and she was really yelling at the occupant, using the foulest language that I do not expect to hear in public addressed to an adult, much less a child! Should I have intervened and given her someone else to yell at? I was just a bit frozen with shock so did nothing – and now I feel really guilty, wondering if keeping silent was actually condoning it!
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As many of you who read these blogs will know, I quite often dash off a text or a message in response to something or sometimes just to say hello.
I have been accused of being a Grammar Nazi, but I do try to make my messages grammatically correct and I use punctuation for the original purpose – to clarify what I am saying. Semi colons, colons and so on all have their place in my opinion.
I have learnt through input from people who are up with these things that if I type a word IN CAPITAL LETTERS it means I am shouting – so I do not often use this, and also because I think it looks odd!
However, I only learned this week – and I apologise in advance to all those of you that I have been offending for years – that I should not use a full stop at the end of the text/message.
Apparently this is very rude and indicates I am cross, or rude or trying to insult the recipient. Now I admit that I can’t actually see the logic in this – but apparently it is definitely something that is a no-no, and shouldn’t be done.
So if you receive a message or text from me complete with full stop, please just ignore the punctuation and accept that someone with over 70 years of learning when and how to punctuate is not going to change overnight. I may start a ‘Retain the Full Stop’ campaign I think.
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On a similar thought – we have a local daily Newspaper which apparently we have to buy for the football news on the back pages. Most days I flick through the rest, while being absolutely appalled at the standard of spelling, grammar and so on – not to mention the factually incorrect information. This week there was a piece about a pub where there had been a fight – they named the pub as the Westerley. It is actually called the West Leigh. Close but not good enough!
On a wet afternoon, there is something pleasing about going through the paper carefully using a red pen to circle the mistakes. Sometimes I am tempted to send it back with errors marked but I suspect it would be a waste of postage.
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The mornings are starting to feel a bit like Autumn, but I hope summer hasn’t completely left us yet although it is probably exhausted after sharing so much sunshine with us.
I hope you all enjoy this Bank Holiday Weekend. Do please take care of yourselves and stay safe.
Have a good week. xx